Just a fellow in northern Maine looking some good times in very close proximity to new friends, and perhaps for that special someone for life. Nights get long and cold up here, and it's good to be able to snuggle up to someone(s) special, so I'd like to find someone(s) I can do that with. I'm particularly interested in finding people who might like a long-term relationship. Doesn't have to be love at first sight; these things take time to grow. One nighters can be a lot of fun, though what I'd like is someone for the long haul, either as friends-with-benefits, or a closer LTR. The best sex for me usually has a lot of cuddling, necking, foreplay, oral, etc, before and after intercourse. One partner at a time has its attractions, because you can concentrate on him/her, but threesomes and more-somes can be a lot of fun as well. Playfulness and a sense of humor is a must when there are more than two pairs of feet sticking off the bed. *grin* I'm willing to travel up to a couple of hours in any direction from Presque Isle - so Fredericton, NB; Bangor, ME; or Riviere-du-Loup, QC are all possible meeting locations. My hobbies include reading, collecting antiques of various sorts, attending auctions, and watching off-beat movies. I am 100% discrete, and D/D clean.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone(s) that is interesting to be around. Long term relationships are of greatest interest to me. Short term mad passion is fun, but longer, slower relationships have their pluses, too.

Right now, I'd like to meet that someone interesting, become friends, and keep each other sane with occasional benefits as either person needs. While I'd like to meet a local, bisexual or straight female to develop a long-term relationship, for now, I'd just like to meet someone to help release our mutual pressures. Busy schedules and workdays make it hard to form a couple, but a good friend is always welcome.

Also, I'd like to find a couple, or an existing group, who would like to have a good-natured guy around, who enjoys sex as part of or a prelude to a healthy friendship. I adore lazing around with other folks in the nude, exploring bodies and enjoying the company. It's more fun if everyone is bisexual, but I recognize that's not everyone's taste.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Latex, Outdoor sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Safe, sane, & consensual

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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