A gentleman to the bone. I believe that a lady should be treated as such, and I am more than capable of doing so. While I'm not interested in being your boyfriend, respect is paramount. I don't believe that one's sexual openness relegates them to a class less deserving of adoration, admiration or respect. Dispeite what may be inferred from the pseudonym, I'm not into playing games. I'm an ambitious, intelligent and articulate black male from the city (Chicago) stuck out here in the suburbs (Schaumburg). A business man; I'm working toward my retirement in a few years. I enjoy dancing particularly Swing, Salsa, Mambo, Cha-Cha-Cha, and Bachata. While I enjoy sports, martial arts and exercise, the past few years of building my businesses have left me in need of shaping up a little. Currently I'm 5'7'' , 240lbs and dropping. My build is muscular with a bit to loose around the middle. ABOUT THE NAME: Some people just can't take a joke. Many have commented on the purility of a moniker like "SoccerMom Pleaser". Well what can I do other than edify each about the origin of such? THE SHORT VERSOIN: Once when I had gone to meet a friend at her 's soccer game I overheard some guy make the comment "There goes the neighborhood...when did gang bangers start attending soccer games?" After telling my friend about the comment she decided to remark "wow you gang bangers really know how to please a soccer mom..." as we passed the guy who had made the statement. After that, I went to each game wearing a T-shirt that said "SoccerMom Pleaser". Purile? Perhaps. Effective? Absolutely.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman or a couple to connect with for conversation and possibly more. I'm in a relationship and that needs to be accepted and respected, as she may ask to join in. My tolerance for the 20-something "go out and get smashed to have a good time" crowd is very low. Though I'm 26 years old I don't know what these kids are into these days and don't really care to. I prefer a mature woman who can let her hair down and relax, someone who won't look at my age as a barrier. I also need someone who is willing to let me try out my new massage techniques

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

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