1.) if you are not seeking a partner for a long term relationship, please move on to another profile. 2.) I am a cockhold. If you do not know what that is keep going ( or get an education and come talk to me) 3.) I seek a sub or switch who is a pain slut or an assertive woman for a female led relationship. As different as that may seem, I have found all three blend, for various reas, well with cockhold relationships. 4.) She is easy to talk to and nonjudgmental 5.) She is sweet ,( just a nice woman), affectionate, articulate, professional, educated and seen outside the bedroom she would appear to be the girl next door. 6.) she believes limits exists to be pushed. 7.) She enjoys giving pain. Plain and simple, it makes her wet to hurt her man, even when, or perhaps most especially when, he may not want it. She loves the power and can’t get enough of the rush. This is why she pushes her man. And secretly, she wants to find a man (sub) who will go to the extremes with her. 8.) She understands that deep kink can and does unite a couple like nothing else can. This is because it fosters great communication and intimacy. 9.) She has a sense of “maybe this is not right.” She has a quiet internal tug of war. Because these women make great partners and domi. She gets so turned on by hurting and humiliating her man and is sometimes, but not all the time, conflicted. Beautiful. OR she has been down this road and has put all her mixed emotions away in favor of her unbridled desires. Either way she knows in her heart “what must happen, “ what she wants and what he needs. 10.) she understands sensual humiliation. It is not about yelling and name calling. It is about tender cruelty on a very intimate level. It is worth a discussion about “mind fucking” your man. My girl would not want to go more than a day without hurting her man’s heart. She adores the feeling and is happy to o it for years on end. And he knows he needs it. Respect is a big deal and yet she freely, when the mood strikes her, totally and completely disrespects her man. And here is the beauty of the moment: the more she disrespects him, the deeper she takes him, the more powerful she feels, the deeper she love her man. She loves him because he is giving his all for her and she finds this kink so hopeless beautiful that she can not help falling deeper for him. She loves dancing on the edge. 11.) she is open to marriage and insist that he is her cock hold from the very first time they lay eyes on each other. 13.) she loves watching her man suck cock. (And all the variations on the theme) 14.) she is articulate, can hold a conversation, is intelligent and speaks in full sentences. Professional, educated women go to the front of the line. However, I am open to anyone who can hold their own in a conversation. 15.) we will not always agree and get along, understand this today so when it happens tomorrow it is not a cause for breakup. I know what I want. If you do not, please keep going. If, on the other hand, you find this post enjoyable. Then let’s talk. Please don’t ask for pictures. I already know what I look like. Seriously happy to send pics ONCE we have SPOKEN on the phone. Way, way to many fakes out there. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

My Ideal Person See above.....,she is sweet, kind, articulate, educated, easy to talk to, a super freak that looks like the girl next door, she is either one of the following or all of the following: sub, switch or domi