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HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR INTUITION? - 8/9/2024
I have been seeing my boyfriend exclusively for years no
and we live over an hour's drive from each other. He
is in the closet to help maintain employment and I am not
in any closet. I have always trusted him until recently.
My question is if you only have circumstantial evidence
and a strong intuition that someone is playing you, do i
need physical proof? to move on, of course i don't ...
1 response(s),
0
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What is the best lube to use for sex? - 7/28/2024
I used KY jellie but it got expensive, baby oil and Vaseline
but it has petroleum products in it. Now I use cheap vegetable
oil, it grows my cock like a cumber. What does everybody
else use.
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Messaging Etiquette - 5/20/2024
I'm an older married man, new to this site and looking
for a NSA/FWB relationship, with a single or married female.
My question is when responding to a profile what is the best
way to respond so I don't come on too strong but also
to get her attention above the competition? Anyone have
any pointers? I'd especially like to hear from the
female members.
2 response(s),
0
votes
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How to tell a "T" from a "CD" - 3/17/2024
How can you tell a "T" from a "CD"?
Is there any difference?
4 response(s),
2
votes
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How to become a good Sissy Slut & be an Owners Bitch - 2/19/2024
<br><br>
Hi As a recent bdsm fetish kinky little thing I am discovering
my new outfits makeup etc daily. Soo much fun. I want to get a nose job and breasts. Based in Oxford I am willing to relocate for anyone wholl
have me. Any advice how to meet people.
1 response(s),
2
votes
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Penis Enlargement pills - 11/10/2023
I am just over 8inch in size but would like to know if there
are any penis enlargement pills that work
4 response(s),
2
votes
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Best Place to go for Sex toys - 11/3/2023
New on here. What are members favorite place to go for Sex
Toys? <br><br>
Thx!
4 response(s),
0
votes
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Anal orgasm advice for men - 10/22/2023
Any advice on the best positions or toys to use to achieve
the best male anal orgasm. I mean when you totally blow your
load without touching your cock.
3 response(s),
2
votes
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Arrange This In Order Of Importance - 9/13/2023
Arrange This In Order Of Importance <br><br>
Looks Money Personality Loyalty
7 response(s),
0
votes
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What does Love mean to you? - 9/13/2023
Respect and Care Romance and Sex Attachment Attraction Magic Faith in God Something else Love has many forms. In what form do you like Love the most?...
2 response(s),
0
votes
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GIFS - 9/4/2023
How do you post GIFS in the chatrooms ?
0 response(s),
1
vote
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Travelling and meeting - 2/13/2023
This past December I travelled to Naples Fl. for three weeks.
If/when I travel somewhere for a specific length of time
how do I announce it to potential partners in advance? It
would be rather tedious and time consuming to send out messages/invitations
one at a time.
4 response(s),
3
votes
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how much better is a orgy than a ganagbang????? - 8/4/2022
Just wondering <br><br>
<br><br>
<br><br>
how much better is an orgy over a gangbang or r they pretty
much the same thing?????????
8 response(s),
6
votes
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Dealbreaker - 7/27/2022
Is crossdressing a deal breaker for a relationship with
women that are bisexual as well?
5 response(s),
2
votes
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Dealbreaker - 7/27/2022
Is crossdressing a deal breaker for a relationship with
women that are bisexual as well?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Straight guys on the DL - 7/6/2022
If you didn't think admitting to having had sex with
other men would diminish your social standing at all, would
you admit it publicly on a site like this, and would you still
be uncomfortable about feeling like you gave up your "straightness"?
9 response(s),
3
votes
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As a BBC what was it like to get that first White Chick in the Ass ? - 5/27/2022
Any other Black man like me ? I've been with white women
before, but I've never had or been with one who Loves
Anal. Tell me, Bruhs; what was that first experience like
? Or White Guys with Black Women ? I've had experiences
with Black Women who Loved or were willing to do Anal. The
Tightness around my "D" felt unbelievable,
it was Wonderful !!! And the way she Hump Feed me ...
5 response(s),
5
votes
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First time - 3/1/2022
I want to experience having sex with tgirls or shemales
It be my first time what should I do.
8 response(s),
3
votes
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Why would you think? - 3/1/2022
I wax my mound and keep her clean. I do my best each day to look
and smell nice. I take the time not only for myself but for
others that are around me. So. Why would you think that I
would like to have some hairy faced male between my legs licking my mound? I mean I got
rid of the hair that was there. It has been said that a male
uses the hair on his face as a mask to hide behind. So far, I ...
8 response(s),
14
votes
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How do you handle a gal that won't let herself cum? - 2/23/2022
I have a girl friend that always stops before she will let
herself cum! She claims even when she plays by herself,
she stops before she climaxes! Try as I may, no matter what I do I cannot convince her to let
go and allow herself to climax. It doesn't matter if
I'm fingering her, eating her, using toys, or fucking
her. She always stops before cumming! Anyone have any ideas on how to get ...
27 response(s),
2
votes
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how to let transwomen now you aren't chasers - 2/22/2022
my wife and i are have had trans friends and we really enjoy
their company and friendship but it seems that it is almost
impossible to talk to them if you are a couple. we don't
consider them a fetish, it's not just about sex, but
the sex when it happens is great, we won't lie.
14 response(s),
12
votes
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Lipstick that stays while cocksucking? - 2/22/2022
i have just recently started my crossdressing journey
and im loving it! but i have one burning question about lipstick.
i see videos of women sucking cock and their lipstick doesnt
wear off. what type of lipstick is this??
12 response(s),
8
votes
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standart people - 12/28/2021
iam sending out a lot but getting nothing back, found out
a lady cant read it, so how does one add standart to a account
26 response(s),
13
votes
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Xmas Gifts - 12/4/2021
Do you know already what you buy for your husband, boyfriend/s
or lover/s? <br><br>
Somewhat lost this year ;( what would you suggest for guys
in their early twenties? <br><br>
Not a believer in gift cards, just hope you have some unique
gift ideas  <br><br>
Please do help, as I want to surprise my loved guys!
21 response(s),
11
votes
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Bicurious - 9/27/2021
Guys, how did u tell ur gf, wife, significant other about
wanting to play with another man? Did they get mad or accept
it? Ladies how do u feel about ur man playing with other men?
47 response(s),
32
votes
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How do you change men? - 9/6/2021
Men have this illusion that
women who like to frequent nude beaches or swim in the pool
without a bikini are looking for sex? How do you bring
men back into reality and convince them that caring,
tenderness, special connection and love leads to making
love? Nudity has nothing to do with sex, it is just how God made
us ...
49 response(s),
20
votes
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Men Wearing Panties - 8/31/2021
How many men and women find it attractive a man in women panties?
How many women would be upset if boyfriend or husband wore
panties?
67 response(s),
29
votes
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Male showers - 7/21/2021
Do females actually enjoy and get aroused watching a man
please himself in the shower? O us it just weird?
29 response(s),
10
votes
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Sharing Your Partner - 6/9/2021
Some couples build their relationships on loyalty and
exclusivity. Do you believe sharing your partner, female
or male, enriches a relationship and does using a condom
or not changes the situation? I am not talking about a FWB or SEX relationship, but a relationship
based on love!
49 response(s),
40
votes
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Sizzle - 6/9/2021
Do you prefer a person clothed in there profile pic or nude?
Which brings you more sizzle?
14 response(s),
5
votes
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Seek true love - 6/8/2021
I would like to ask why most men are not serious and both men
and female doesn’t trust themselves
7 response(s),
10
votes
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Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021
Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I
find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there
some sort of equitette
28 response(s),
28
votes
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Truck Stop[s along I-95 - 5/8/2021
Taking a road trip up and down I-95 this summer. How can I
find what stops are the best to score at. What is or is there
some sort of equitette
2 response(s),
7
votes
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which lipstick for cock sucking - 5/4/2021
i am a beginning crossdresser. i have noticed in videos,
both amateur & professional, how lipstick just stays
on and doesn't smear while cock sucking. what type
of lipstick is this? or is it lipstick at all?
27 response(s),
34
votes
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Underwear choice - 4/30/2021
What kind of underwear do you prefer for your mate to be in
(hopefully briefly)!??! Please tell me why.
53 response(s),
26
votes
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Prostate Orgasm - 3/17/2021
Over the years I've become aware of men that can achieve
"prostate orgasms" thru prostate stimulation
only. I've attempted this with various toys specifically
for this purpose without success. Any information, tips
or recommendations would be appreciated.
68 response(s),
36
votes
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Making time for fun - 2/17/2021
If this has been asked I'm sorry. I couldn't find
it. Plus, seeing as the advice page is seriously lacking
I thought I'd ask something that's been on my mind
when I get a second to relax. So my question is: how do you
make time in a busy schedule for yourself to do what you'd
like to do? Be it just relax, or to have quiet time alone with
your significant other, and not even ...
28 response(s),
28
votes
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Condoms - 2/9/2021
Anyone have experience with the condoms that numb out your
cock so you can last longer?
85 response(s),
49
votes
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BI SEXUAL - 2/4/2021
Thos has become an ongoing trend with so many having or have
had a sexual relationship or attraction to the opposite
sex . I have a friend who has been married to her hubby for
20 years. Marriage has been great sex outstanding. One
day she abruptly left work because she wasn't feeling
well . To her surprise her husband was home . So she decided
to enter through the back door of the house ...
77 response(s),
64
votes
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post, blogs and stories - 1/19/2021
Does anyone else have a problem with missing words when
you wright a story or blog.? I go back and edit it and find
more missing the next day !!
31 response(s),
31
votes
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Penile Injection - 12/23/2020
Has anyone tried penile injections?
29 response(s),
15
votes
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How do make the holidays sexy? - 12/16/2020
Tis the season to be naughty! Right? <br><br>
Well, how do make the holidays sexy?
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Censored Opinions - 12/14/2020
Have you noticed that if your post here is even mildly critical
of the website, you will be "denied due to the inclusion
of banned_topic"? It's a funny coincidence
that, isn't it?
44 response(s),
34
votes
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Incoming instant messages - 11/28/2020
I continue to receive instant messages when I'm not
on the site. Is it because I don't log out? Also, I clear
the messages and they are gone but keep coming back, I'm
up to 80 some, why do they keep coming back? Thanks
53 response(s),
61
votes
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fruit - 11/14/2020
Whats the best sex fruit
50 response(s),
36
votes
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What grabs your attention most when instant messaging someone? - 11/7/2020
Should they send you a picture first, then talk? Do you prefer
the talking first? Should it be dirty or tame? What gets
you to seal the deal? Does the profile picture matter? Let
us guys know!
22 response(s),
18
votes
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New members email - 11/7/2020
Do new members get free messages for a period of time?
18 response(s),
24
votes
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Why can't I cum during sex? - 11/6/2020
So I've noticed in recent times that I can't seem
to orgasm during sex in recent months; now typically i've
been doing breaks between jerking it whenever I have a chance
for intimacy (expecting it some time beforehand) but still
I struggle to get a pleasing climax during/after sex. <br><br>
While it's nice for my partner who is able to benefit
from this, I am literally ...
48 response(s),
22
votes
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Orgasm issue with partner - 11/3/2020
Have you ever had problems with a sex partner because your
dick was used to the sensation it gets when you jerk off?
Did you have a hard time cumming -- or a hard time adjusting
to the rhythm or feel from your partner? If so, how did you get past it? I have new partner and lose erection while having sex.
31 response(s),
33
votes
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New Cock Ring? - 10/18/2020
Need a new cock ring any recommendations? <br><br>
Looking for a silver metal one, don't like the rubber
ones. But it has to be real metal not chromed, a silver or
stainless steel but they are harder to find at adult shop
and don't want to use amazon. Rather go to an abs and pick it up, also a reason to go check
out the booths too lol Abs is funner with a friend to shop with ...
63 response(s),
45
votes
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joining a 3sum - 10/15/2020
I always see folks posting that they want a 3rd to join them?
has anyone actually done this? I have to admit this is a huge
fantasy of mine and really would like to partake in one.
What is the actual best way to go about this?
60 response(s),
50
votes
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penis surgery ? - 10/13/2020
I've heard that penis enlargement surgery is not only
possible now but safer and more effective and now not too
much more than boob jobs ...... <br><br>
can anyone enlighten me? <br><br>
if it's true I think we will have alot more big cocks
than before <br><br>
I am happy with what I have but now and then a little stretching
is good
46 response(s),
31
votes
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Anal lube - 10/9/2020
"Non" natural lube vs. naturtal/organic lube?
Any points?
51 response(s),
24
votes
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VAGINISMUS... - 10/9/2020
I KNOW THIS IS NOT A BLOG SECTION. but is the most engaging
part of the site .. <br><br>
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY WOMEN EXPERIENCE PAIN DURING
PENETRATION? <br><br>
Vaginismus.. this is a condition where the vaginal muscles
contract making it painful to have sex. It is normal and
happens to alot of women. It is makes it hard for the vaginal
muscles to relax or expand ...
33 response(s),
31
votes
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HIGH SEX DRIVE - 9/25/2020
Hii!! i know this is something some of us have and are struggling
with is to get sexual satisfaction from the partners we
have.. I have had a high sex drive since my 20s and it has ruined
the relationships i had. I attract great guys but sexually
i never get satisfied. I ended having a sexual partner for
5yrs but he moved to philly for a job promotion. He is the
only guy that could keep ...
52 response(s),
68
votes
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Nerdy or more serious? - 9/18/2020
Ladies what do you like more from your partner? Someone
that is more serious or someone a little more nerdy. You
dont want the far end of any extreme but there is wiggle room
in the middle. What do you like?
2 response(s),
0
votes
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Do you let the apocalypse stop you from meeting? - 9/18/2020
Are you still meeting up with people and open for more now
the apocalypse hit? I believe people can still be safe and
meet. How about you?
1 response(s),
3
votes
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Sex after divorce??? - 9/13/2020
I am not sure my title is quite accurate. <br><br>
Here is the issue...I was raised a strict Catholic. I waited
until I got married to have sex. I didn't seem to have
the highest sex drive either. <br><br>
He left 5 years ago and we have been divorced for 2 years.
I would love to get back out into the dating field and frankly
I would like to not be so upright about ...
64 response(s),
41
votes
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Why in corona virus advisories... - 9/11/2020
is there no mention of dieting and exercise to lose weight
because hypertension, diabetes, and obesity itself causes
a whole host of problems beyond corona. With corona it seriously
increases your chances for a bad outcome. It is hard but
people should try to be healthier and loss weight and maintain
better habits to achieve that goal. If you want a longer
healthier life it would seem you should ...
30 response(s),
27
votes
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AGE IS NOTHING BUTTT...... - 8/30/2020
I am writting this beacuse it seems like something very
interesting. I know many of us might be experiencing it
on the site. For as long i have been on here many of the younger
guys approach me frequently . Some of us associate age with
knowledge, experience, etc .. I once had a fling with someone
younger upto almost 10yrs young and it was a blast while
it lasted. Then i dated a guy 10 years ...
93 response(s),
76
votes
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Find Hookups Meets - 8/24/2020
What are people's experiences of first meets and how
long it has taken them to meet with suitable singles or couples?
We'd like to try our first mmf or mfmf but dont seem to
get passed the chatting/emailing stage. Any hints or tips,
or is it one of those if it's right, it will happen? We
don't want to just jump into something for the sake
of the experience, we'd like it to ...
49 response(s),
43
votes
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Unread emails - 8/14/2020
I have 3 emails pending when I look to see unread it shows
none , how do I find the unread messages? I have looked at
the various emails that they be from refreshed the options
in the email section
29 response(s),
28
votes
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SCAMMERS - 8/14/2020
This has become annoying and frustrating to many of us .I
have been on the site for a long time and i get asked the same
question all the time. ARE YOU REAL ? i know many of us have
been scammed especially men and it is sad when you have invested
time in talking to someone only to findout they are a scam.
My best approach normally is to ask many questions, insist
on meet and greet first in a ...
76 response(s),
70
votes
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whose going covid stir crazy - 8/8/2020
tell me how your coping with the social distancing
13 response(s),
6
votes
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Quesstions - 8/7/2020
Why do my questions show up on A/L then there gone after a
while?
14 response(s),
29
votes
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Anybody else? - 7/31/2020
Is there anybody else having a problem when you go to see
who sent you a flirt? I go to it and nothing appears but a blank
screen.
71 response(s),
82
votes
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Blog vs article - 7/28/2020
I guess I’m a bit confused, what is the difference between
a blog post and an article in the “magazine” are articles
just questions? What’s the benefit to one over the other?
Does anyone know, and is this how you earn ?
16 response(s),
23
votes
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Blog vs article - 7/28/2020
I guess I’m a bit confused, what is the difference between
a blog post and an article in the “magazine” are articles
just questions? What’s the benefit to one over the other?
Does anyone know, and is this how you earn ?
3 response(s),
3
votes
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Meeting Advice - 7/21/2020
What are some good advice for meeting someone offline from
this website?
36 response(s),
33
votes
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Double Vag - Urban Legend or Perfectly Doable? - 7/19/2020
Has anyone actually done it and if so, could you recommend
the best position to do it in please? x
42 response(s),
38
votes
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IM - 7/17/2020
What is the deal with the new IM..I have mine set to distance,
as in those closest to me and all I get are people that are
worlds away..have not figured out hot to correct it yet
40 response(s),
22
votes
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Pyhsical Sexual Feats - 7/16/2020
Do you/have you ever gone to extreme for sexual sensation.
one example was holding a prone hold while having my cock
milked by perky titted mistress. another is a handstand
blow job. The mix of physical and sexual i find more intense
orgasm. Has anyone else felt this and enjoy it
4 response(s),
6
votes
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Is it a bad thing to not want to talk on the phone? - 7/15/2020
I don't feel comfortable in talking on the phone to
a man with I don't know. So because I won't talk
on the phone the guy wants nothing to do with me. It should
be my choice what I want to do not the guy's
60 response(s),
36
votes
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How do i delete certain things? Such as... - 7/14/2020
How do I delete top fans, flirts, and other undesirable
people from my page? For some odd abs unforeseen reason
I have a man as my top fan. I'm straight and I will NEVER
get with a person from the same sex. I know I could do this
very thing I'm asking about a few years ago. Sol why
can't I do this now? I find it extremely offensive and
it makes me want to delete this profile and start ...
14 response(s),
12
votes
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Should I break it off? - 7/13/2020
I am a married man that has been in a hot discrete relationship
with another man for the past 3 years. We really enjoy each
others company and most recently he wants me to leave my
wife and be with him. I told him no but I can tell he really
wants me. Should I break it off or continue it and run the
risk she may find out about us?
26 response(s),
23
votes
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Timing of Food Intake and Cleaning for Best Anal Play - 7/11/2020
Hi, <br><br>
I am bi and interested to get more comfortable bottoming
for men and pegging women or Trans-women. However, bottoming
seems to be a lot of work for me, and slightly stressful and
exhuasting before play. I'm looking for tips and insight
into other people's (women and men) approach to prepare
for anal play. What is your preparation to avoid any ...
17 response(s),
16
votes
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Broadcasting with an android phone - 7/11/2020
When broadcasting, how do i switch the camera from selfie,
front, to the back camera? I dont want to show me, i want to
show my wife in front of me.
7 response(s),
10
votes
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Why? - 7/7/2020
Why can't standard members reply to emails from gold
members??
10 response(s),
7
votes
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Point for Gold - 7/6/2020
I'm fairly new to the site and I'm sorry if this
has been touched on already. I was just curious if there
is any way to redeem your earned for gold memberships?
I think it would be an awesome incentive myself and again
I do apologize if I'm behind the times with my question.
Thank you, Ace
21 response(s),
23
votes
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Why does IM suddenly stop working? - 7/6/2020
I’m a paid gold member.. I use IM a decent amount. So, Ive
not even had my membership a week.. late last night the IM
feature stops working. The button used to send the message
is grayed out. I send a question in for the help desk but haven’t
heard. In searching around I found that I had 64 .
I bought another 1000 and its still not working.. Ive seen
comments in profiles for people ...
20 response(s),
10
votes
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Do women enjoy watching guys blow guys - 7/5/2020
I just started dating a girl who really enjoys watching
guys blow guys. Is it more of videos or do girls like watching
the real thin?
38 response(s),
21
votes
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I seen this on profiles - 7/5/2020
I seen this on profiles. can someone tell me the meaning
of #&39 ?
13 response(s),
5
votes
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Why do women close their eyes during a blow while men open their eyes during the lick? - 7/5/2020
It is a mystery that needs solving. Women for their most
parts close their eyes while the rod is down their throat
while for the men it is the opposite. Men for the most part
keep their eyes open when they are working their mouths
for the pussy. Does this difference boil down to something
evolutionary ? Are women are from Venus during the blow
and are Men from the Mars during the lick ? Your ...
30 response(s),
14
votes
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gay bar pickup question... - 6/29/2020
this question is for men that go to gay bars to pick up men, as
someone that wants to be "picked up or hit on", how
or what should i do or wear to better my odds?..and yes i'm
a bottom....thanks!
13 response(s),
25
votes
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Should the site notify when someone has blocked a user? - 6/28/2020
I have found out in a few instances like 2 or 3 that I cannot
post on someone's advice lines post and I never made
a personal attack on them. Fair's fair I will add them
to my list which contains three members. <br><br>
Another option is the site block also works both ways. they
are added to your auto-block list which I could get behind.
Why should they have the right to ...
46 response(s),
39
votes
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Feeling shy about first meets.. - 6/20/2020
I know this seems obvious.. but does anyone else get bad
anxiety from crippling shyness the closer the date of a
meet gets! i'm a bag of nerves! does it get better?!
how do you cope? always work out or never worth the pain of
it all in the end?
43 response(s),
37
votes
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What do you do if no woman will talk to you or give you sex for 20 years - 6/19/2020
I have been on the Internet for 20 years since Jan. 1999 when
I built my company URL. Never had to work or pay a bill ever
since. So for 20 years I joined every "dating"
site I could find on the Internet because I got fooled by
my own computer into believing I could find a girlfriend
there. After 2 decades of "chatting" with "
profiles" I have never talked to any ...
27 response(s),
10
votes
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Can't broadcast privately - 6/18/2020
Our cam is working fine. We can broadcast publicly, but
we can't broadcast privately. Doesn't work when we try to send our cam in another member's
chat room, or when we try to click the public/private button
on the bottom left of our cam screen. <br><br>
What is the deal? <br><br>
Help! <br><br>
Thanks! <br><br>
CC4U
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Polite/respectful vs pushover doormat milquetoast - 6/18/2020
Is it difficult for women to tell the difference between
the two? <br><br>
My general demeanor is polite/respectful, but over the
last 20 years and primarily via internet rather than real
life where they can observe to know better, too many women,
once they get comfortable, make the mistake of assuming
they can just step on me, try to take over my life/home, chase
away my friends, ...
21 response(s),
13
votes
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Opening Lines - 6/16/2020
I recently added a couple photos to my profile and the # of
contacts increased dramatically. It's been interesting.
Why would somebody send 1 or 2 word messages? I'm sorry
but 'sup? (well not even a word) is going to be ignored
in person or online. Are these simpletons TRYING to sabotage
themselves?
24 response(s),
35
votes
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Meeting a like minded couple - 6/14/2020
Why is it so hard to meet a like minded couple?? We've
meet a few couples in person that we had great chats with.
Then once in person you realize all if not most communication
was all from one of the spouses and not both. Personality
doesn't match to their online presence. One is hot
and the other is a dud!? Personality wise.... or you get
all chat and no meet, a meet up is discussed ...
11 response(s),
14
votes
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Not much meeting going on - 6/13/2020
I've been on here for 2 years and have had one meet with
a women and it was less than stellar. I have sent to many messages
to count through email or IM and I mainly get no response
or rejected politely. Should I be more Direct in my messages
rather than the conventional ?Hello, How are you?"
I have a hard time sending expansive messages when the likelihood
of a response is low. ...
22 response(s),
16
votes
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Lost stamina - 6/12/2020
Came back from my deployment and i feel like i lost a lot if
my stamina. It hasnt improved much and i dont last as long
as i used too. Any tips?
17 response(s),
11
votes
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BECOMING CELIBATE - 6/11/2020
I just turned 47 and yes that is my body working out works
. I have been on this site for a very long time. I met very nice
guys made friends with some and also did hengout with a couple.
The last guy i met was recently.He is a guy i have always wanted
and dreamed off . Things went well until a 2 weeks ago things
changed. Communication died down and we don't hengout
anymore.He says he likes ...
26 response(s),
22
votes
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Watching your partner - 6/9/2020
Do women think it's HOT to watch their man pleasing
another woman? I love to watch the woman I am with, with another
man or woman. But she doesn't always seem to be into
it in reverse.. is this normal?
30 response(s),
17
votes
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Any luck from this site. - 6/2/2020
Is it easy to find a friend on this site. Any one had experience
with couples M/F on from this site?
55 response(s),
30
votes
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Need input from the guys on here. - 6/1/2020
I have been asked to do a photoshoot for a female model friend
of mine. She is not sure what type of shots we need to take
so I am going to throw it out there and let you all help decide.
<br><br>
What is/are your favorite shots of women... naked or dressed?
<br><br>
Examples: Upskirt, Downblouse, bent over naked, legs
crossed, holding boobs up with arms crossed, ...
38 response(s),
28
votes
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Can one cam in secret - 5/31/2020
It's undeniably easier to hide your identity as a man
when caming all the action is down below. How about us women
who want to keep our faces secret. Any tips tricks thoughts?
29 response(s),
22
votes
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Exhibitionism - 5/30/2020
If you were seen having sex, would it be more embarrassing
or exciting if its was someone you knew? If it was exciting being seen by someone you knew, who would
be most exciting to be seen by? Friend, Relation or Workmate?
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Indoor or Outdoor Sex - 5/30/2020
Do you folks have a preference for indoor or outdoor sex
and if so, is there a partiuclar reason for your choice?
<br><br>
L&G x
21 response(s),
11
votes
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How do I cum harder? - 5/30/2020
Anybody know any tricks, tips, secrets to cum harder?
24 response(s),
18
votes
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Blogs - 5/28/2020
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
19 response(s),
5
votes
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Blogs - 5/28/2020
Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following
about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using
them anymore. Why is that?
1 response(s),
0
votes
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Why Anal Sex? - 5/26/2020
For the ladies in particular, men can chime in as well. What
is the fixation with anal? I once had a girl friend who liked
it. I did it to please her, only once or twice, but was not
a fan. I get notices from ladies saying they want a guy to
do it to them. How many are saying that and really want it
or just think all guys want it? Ladies, your thoughts, comments??
45 response(s),
20
votes
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Can one safely play with a partner who has herpes? - 5/25/2020
A woman I know wants IT bad but has herpes. She says she takes
a daily med and is safe with a 2% chance of contracting herpes
through sexual contact. She further claimed that the transmission
comes from skin-to-skin, not genitals. That's a 1
in 50 chance! I don't like those odds. <br><br>
Should I? And if I do what extra precautions should I take?
Serious and humorous ...
32 response(s),
34
votes
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New here--Any advice on what type of person to avoid? - 5/24/2020
I would like advice from someone more seasoned on this site.
Is there a 'tell' early on that someone might be
bad news?
13 response(s),
9
votes
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Is it just me??? - 5/23/2020
I was wondering something, and hopefully I will get some
insight into the things I find myself fantasizing about
more and more lately... Every time I am riding a cock, no matter how good it feels,
I cant stop thinking about sucking it!!like, I have to
make myself hop off of it so I can lick and suck it, it makes
me so wet to even think about it, so when i am doing it , i ...
24 response(s),
18
votes
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SEX TOYS - 5/22/2020
i have always wondered why people use toys during sex . I
have never had the interest in being aroused by the use of
toys alone or with a partner.I feel like i might get addicted
to using them more. I know many guys enjoy using them on a
woman and vice versa . I prefer to not have them. What are
the advantages and disadvantages of using sex toys ?
28 response(s),
31
votes
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Confirm you ID. Is it safe? - 5/21/2020
Question for those who gave Find Hookups their real name and uploaded
their government identification. Have you had any problems
from that?
30 response(s),
17
votes
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Cam Scam, what does this mean? - 5/20/2020
So I posted a pic and this was the comment, I am
not 100% sure but I think this is insinuating something
like I'm not real or a scam? Totally confused, can someone explain this? And of course, this person is blocked!!!...
22 response(s),
20
votes
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Increased Interest! - 5/19/2020
Might seem a bit of a silly question, but whats the best way
to get increased interest on here?! I've been on and
off the site for a couple of years and never managed to get
a meet or any email responses (and i must have sent 100 by
now!) except one! A girl who exchanged numbers and we got
very friendly but after i year i realised she was never going
to meet and she never did lol. Perhaps my ...
9 response(s),
8
votes
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all about the benjamins - 5/18/2020
what do i do if my partner and i always end up arguing and money?
sex is great. every thing else is great except our money
issues!!
10 response(s),
26
votes
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Instant messaging help - 5/18/2020
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
6 response(s),
15
votes
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Instant messaging help - 5/18/2020
Where do my previous instant messages go? When I leave the
screen and come back they are all gone.
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Poolboy4summerfun - 5/17/2020
I'm 40 and athletic cute and kind. I'm into older
woman like 60's how do I get them to notice me and check
me out. I want so bad to make love to a mature women this summer
I'm sure she will love the ORAL attention I give her!!!!
5 response(s),
8
votes
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Poolboy4summerfun - 5/17/2020
I'm 40 and athletic cute and kind. I'm into older
woman like 60's how do I get them to notice me and check
me out. I want so bad to make love to a mature women this summer
I'm sure she will love the ORAL attention I give her!!!!
1 response(s),
0
votes
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meeting someone - 5/16/2020
would you meet up with someone who didn't share any
kind of picture or share anything about them but that they
want your address and to fuck?
35 response(s),
17
votes
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Do we tell him or no??!!!! - 5/16/2020
So, he is minding his business, looks peaceful,
but, he is exposed... Do we tell him?...
23 response(s),
12
votes
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Sex in the time of COVID-19? - 5/14/2020
I live in NYC. Noo Yawk always has to be at the center of something,
and here I am, smack dab in the epicenter of the greatest
global pandemic since the Spanish flu. <br><br>
Not trying to make light of a horrible situation. All I hear
these days are the ambulances racing by. <br><br>
But, a girl has her needs. <br><br>
I thought I'd take to the polls: ...
38 response(s),
25
votes
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A Couple of Three - 5/14/2020
So, I'm wondering if anyone here is in a couple of three?
I've seen couples on IG and have heard of a few people
that I know that have tried it. I'm told that it works like any other relationship,
but how? lol Just curious to know anyone's experience in a threeway
relationship.
7 response(s),
8
votes
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How do you ? - 5/14/2020
When reading a Blog and you want to post a reply with an added
photo; how do you load the photo ?? I know it's probably just me; but can't figure
it out !!!
6 response(s),
2
votes
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Roleplay Ideas? - 5/13/2020
Trying to spice things up at home and thought about roleplaying.
Any good scenarios prides to share?
9 response(s),
16
votes
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quarantine time!! - 5/13/2020
your partner has a with his/her ex and decided to spend
some of the quarantine time to be closer with the .
<br><br> how would you handle this?
10 response(s),
14
votes
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Advice - 5/12/2020
Hello I am fairly new to all of this and wanted to take the
time to tell you more about me, my experiences, likes and
known dislikes. <br><br> I was born in 1981 and grew up in a family that sex wasn't
spoken about and when you did you were made to feel dirty
about it, especially whenever you touched yourself. Yes,
I was a typical that experimented with my boyfriend
at the time ...
5 response(s),
6
votes
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Spotting the fakes? New member advice please. - 5/11/2020
Morning all, <br><br>
I recently joined this site and just like other apps / sites,
I expected there to be fake profiles. However, on sign up
I instantly received 14 messages that I cannot read without
upgrading. <br><br>
Now I am not against upgrading to 'GOLD' and would
if I found this site helpful in my persuit of sexual kinks
to try (MMF, DP, etc). However, ...
27 response(s),
27
votes
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What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020
Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just
curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've
never used sex toys before.
31 response(s),
15
votes
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What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020
Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just
curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've
never used sex toys before.
1 response(s),
0
votes
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How long would you wait to start meeting again after this mess? - 5/10/2020
I'm thinking two weeks after everything opens back
up. I'm still working and with the public daily. I don't
want to get tested cause I don't have any symptoms and
don't want to waste a test that someone else might need.
<br><br>
But for real I'm ready to meet right now but I got to keep
my horny sex drive in check and make sure this mess is under
control. ...
30 response(s),
14
votes
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Why is it that nice guys finish last? - 5/9/2020
I am nice guy just looking to meet people, get to know them
then have sex with him. When I do this, I never get any one
to chat or hookup with me but if I act like a or a bad boy,
I get replies out of my ears. I don't want to change who
I am so any advice for this nice guy?
12 response(s),
10
votes
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Recent friend activity - 5/9/2020
I liked somones picture long ago. Since then they constantly
show up in my current friend activity. I am not friends with
this person and i have blocked the profile to try to silence
it from taking up my feed. This person is very active and
kudos to them. But why am i seeing their content if we are
not friends and i have blocked their profile?
20 response(s),
22
votes
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help for standard members - 5/5/2020
Any tips for how standard members can make contact . messenger isn't working and neither are comments
on pictures
44 response(s),
20
votes
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caming and no show? - 5/5/2020
ok this is the deal. I am a straight guy and was on cam, fully
clothed. People pop on and off .both and female, i don't
always see who's watching since i am at work and cant
always see the list of who is watching. usually when i notice
someone and they are not what i am looking for i them
off, mainly males. This one guy was on and he did'nt
say any thing to warrant ...
1 response(s),
4
votes
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friend's profile - 5/4/2020
This weekend I discovered the Find Hookups profile of a friend/former
coworker and his wife. I had no idea they were into swinging.
Should I check out their profile details and send them a
message, or should I pretend that I never saw it? I'd
really like to fuck my friend's wife. What would you
do?
20 response(s),
8
votes
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Cock sleeves - 5/1/2020
So, I just discovered that cock sleeves were a thing! Has
anyone every used one? If so, how was it? Is it pleasurable
for both partners?
16 response(s),
7
votes
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Discretion is a must 🤫🤫🤫 - 4/30/2020
As I peruse over countless profiles, really fancying the
photos as well as some of the videos, I can't help but
notice a common theme amongst a lot of the profiles. Yes,
I do eventually get to the reading portion of the profile.
What I'm noticing, 🧐, is there are a lot of you whom
desire discretion to be a must. Which in itself led me to
thinking, 🤔, well is discretion not the ...
5 response(s),
1
vote
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Discretion is a must 🤫🤫🤫 - 4/30/2020
As I peruse though countless profiles, really fancying
the images as well as a few videos, and I finally make it to
the reading portion. I can't help but notice a common
theme, "discretion is a must" 🤫🤫🤫.
To which I proceed to ponder 🤔, is discretion not the
greatest part of valor? Which has absolutely nothing to
do with this, I just like using it every time is see that ...
0 response(s),
0
votes
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What does it mean? - 4/29/2020
What does it mean when a profile contains I'im in
it? I know that profiles preceed with rm mean returning
member, but is the prior a bot identifier? I see it so often,
it came be a fluke. Also, why are there so many women in Taiwan
flirting with me when I live in South Carolina? Green card?
America's success at fighting the pandemic? Whst?
17 response(s),
10
votes
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cum - 4/24/2020
(SIZE) Being a reader i tend to read a lot of the erotica.
, i have written a few myself__I am curious Do people really
really love cum that much?______________so much so that
they would lick it out of their partners pussies, cocks,
bum hole??______________ Cmon help me understand
49 response(s),
28
votes
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Deja vu - 4/24/2020
I left Find Hookups about a year ago because the rules had been altered
to make it very difficult to talk to people without an upgraded
. I decided to give it another try and so far it is
no better. I use to get free gold due to the number of views
I received . Are there ways to get temporary upgrades now?
20 response(s),
16
votes
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GOOD PUSSY OR GOOD DICK ? - 4/24/2020
What do we like ? I like sex so much. but i don't seem to
attrart the right guy. I had a sexual partner for 5yrs he
moved to philly for a job promotion. That was the best dick
i ever had . Our connection and friendship was fun and amazing.
After he left I opted to be celibate for a while . My friends
setup the profile behind my back coz I didn't date or
look for guys. I have an ...
15 response(s),
23
votes
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What to write in a friend request... - 4/23/2020
I would like to get some advise on what to write when creating
a friend request. I have written several and I typically
keep them to a couple of sentences that either comment the
person or note a compatibility, along with a request for
friendship "if interested". I try to message
only those that show a favorable compatibility rating
and I am polite with my message. I do not add any ...
10 response(s),
9
votes
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How To Get Laid By More than one Man At A Time. - 4/23/2020
I have a fantasy I would like to fulfill. Have two men suck
one of my breasts each and then get pussy fucked by the back
by at least two men. I only want the sex to be gentle. The situation
would call for much discretion. How could I make it happen?
20 response(s),
16
votes
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Friends List - 4/22/2020
How do I take someone OFF my friends list?
6 response(s),
6
votes
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Is this normal for a woman when she cums? - 4/22/2020
Unusual question here... Let me explain... I love going
down on a woman and watching her cum as I lick her. Had a strange
situation. Twice now, a woman I was going down on, came so
hard, she momentarily lost control of her bowels. Not a
lot, just a little. Has this ever happened to any of you?
11 response(s),
11
votes
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Naked in Nature? - 4/21/2020
I Love being nude in the wilds of bushland. Do You? Why do
you think it's So Exciting to walk around Naked under
the trees?
7 response(s),
5
votes
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Why? - 4/21/2020
Why is it ok for a woman to look for more than what they are
getting at home but when a guy does he is a cheater?or no one
will talk to him? A guy can be in a sexless Marriage also!
8 response(s),
6
votes
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Contacting a member that has blocked you. - 4/19/2020
Weird question. Someone hotlisted me but it appears they
have me blocked. I’m not sure if the hotlist was legit.
Is there any way to contact a member through Find Hookups that has
blocked you?
45 response(s),
24
votes
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Do Men like/care/dislike/love/turned on/turned off when I meet with them and tell them exactly what - 4/18/2020
I wonder if men like it when I tell them where in the room and
how to fuck me? Example come closer to me take of your pants. Im going to
get up on this counter top and then we can change positions
in a few mins. A few mins later ok im ready turn me around bend
me over the chair and fuck me slow but hard. So I changed positions
like 6times. Does that effect performance? Turn on or turn on? Like ...
50 response(s),
31
votes
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Hard time busting in a condom - 4/17/2020
So, I've been having a hard time cumming with a condom
on. I can almost get there but just cant cross the finish
line. After this point I go to semi hard then back to rock
hard and back and forth. Whats wrong with me? I just want
to CUM!
29 response(s),
13
votes
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What do you use ..... - 4/17/2020
When broadcast yourself on cam; what software do you use
? I have had an issue with Flash ! I open broadcast and cam
picture shows up but in the meantime the cam icon does not
show ! I have gone into Model Chat, find a model with one or
no viewers, engage her in private chat, tell her what issue
is and request that she open my cam, permission box will
pop up which I grant, picture for her ...
4 response(s),
9
votes
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IM Rules - 4/16/2020
How many do you need to have before you can use IM?
I have over 200 but I cannot ever reply to them. IT here has
not been helpful. Any ideas?
10 response(s),
13
votes
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When do you stop using a condom - 4/15/2020
When you’re seeing a guy semi regularly, at what point
do you stop using a condom? I’m keen to know experiences
of others
44 response(s),
24
votes
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Seeking advice on message archiving - 4/15/2020
I wanted to go back to a contact I had made some time ago. When
I tried to review the message, it was not displayed. The
oldest message archived is about 3 weeks old. Is there a
way, short of cutitng and pasting, to preserve message
threads older than 3 weeks? If so, how do I find my older messages?
6 response(s),
9
votes
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ANAL SEX ? - 4/12/2020
Anal sex has become common. I always wondered how people
got STDs through anal . So i asked my doctor. This is what
she said . The tissue and skin around the anus acts like a
protective barrier for the bottom of the digestive system
which is also connected to blood stream. The tissue inside
the anus is thinner and delicate and more likely to bleed
and tear as a result of penetration. It ...
27 response(s),
36
votes
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ANAL SEX ? - 4/12/2020
Anal sex has become common. I always wondered how people
got STDs through anal . So i asked my doctor. This is what
she said . The tissue and skin around the anus acts like a
protective barrier for the bottom of the digestive system
which is also connected to blood stream. The tissue inside
the anus is thinner and delicate and more likely to bleed
and tear as a result of penetration. It ...
0 response(s),
3
votes
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If It Takes Forever, I Will Wait for You - 4/11/2020
When I'm in contact with someone that seems interesting,
I'll usually ask to meet right away. Not for sex. A short
public meet for a drink or over a bucket of balls at a driving
range. Just a face to face, so we at least know we're
wasting our time on an actual person. I watched plenty of
fakes disappear the moment meeting is discussed. If that's
the case, let's get it over ...
38 response(s),
25
votes
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If It Takes Forever, I Will Wait for You - 4/11/2020
When I'm in contact with someone that seems interesting,
I'll usually ask to meet right away. Not for sex. A short
public meet for a drink or over a bucket of balls at a driving
range. Just a face to face, so we at least know we're
wasting our time on an actual person. I watched plenty of
fakes disappear the moment meeting is discussed. If that's
the case, let's get it over ...
0 response(s),
2
votes
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Well my curiosity and frustration all in one. .. - 4/8/2020
Dear Magazine, I know this may sound like a redundant question.
Yet I am having a difficult time finding a local couple or
woman. Sure I find hits but the people I find are all out of state
or even trying to distinguish those women that
<br><br> <br><br>
?
16 response(s),
11
votes
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Worth it? - 4/6/2020
I have had an account now for a little over a year and I have
had zero interest reciprocated back. What is the secret
to actually making connections with people on here? I have
my profile all done, pics up, status updates but no “hits”.
Am I doing something wrong? Please advise!! <br><br>
<br><br>
Sincerely, <br><br>
Sexually frustrated .
22 response(s),
15
votes
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Worth it? - 4/6/2020
I have had an account now for a little over a year and I have
had zero interest reciprocated back. What is the secret
to actually making connections with people on here? I have
my profile all done, pics up, status updates but no “hits”.
Am I doing something wrong? Please advise!! <br><br>
<br><br>
Sincerely, <br><br>
Sexually frustrated .
0 response(s),
1
vote
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Worth it? - 4/6/2020
I have had an account now for a little over a year and I have
had zero interest reciprocated back. What is the secret
to actually making connections with people on here? I have
my profile all done, pics up, status updates but no “hits”.
Am I doing something wrong? Please advise!! <br><br>
<br><br>
Sincerely, <br><br>
Sexually frustrated .
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Help with gag reflex. Deep throat. - 4/2/2020
I don't know how many people do it. How can I get over
the gag reflex with a I take a cock down my throat?
35 response(s),
23
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Standing Out in the Crowd - 4/1/2020
Since we're all being socially distant in
the real world....you're all doing that right? I'm
sure no one here would break the guidelines our governments
are so carefully laying out just to get a little sexual healing,
would they? I'm shocked. Anyway, since most (maybe)
are keeping a safe distance, for now, it may be a good time
to work on some of the 'ole profiles and ...
51 response(s),
24
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I'm Lost ...... - 3/31/2020
In the last several weeks; I have noticed Blog replies that
have just 869 or eight six nine or other numbers only !! What
is that all about ??
9 response(s),
12
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SEXUAL CONNECTION OR FRIENDSHIP - 3/29/2020
I have been on the site for so long . I have talked and met so
many nice and interesting guys . There some people you have
a sexual connection and some a friendship connection.
Besude sexual connection am glad i made some good friends
too . Sexual connection can happen online but not in person
because of chemistry and attraction. Why do people get
upset when you say your not interested? I would ...
46 response(s),
41
votes
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Do you meet people on here or just chat? - 3/28/2020
I'd love to hear how many people are here just for fun
or to actually meet up for real fun. LOL! So do you meet people
on here in person? If not yet would you?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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What are horny people doing? - 3/28/2020
With strip clubs and massages closed and no bars/clubs
open, how can horny people meet others in person? <br><br>
I miss the touch of a woman so that is what brought me here.
So horny, LOL!
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Anal Sex - 3/28/2020
I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it .
Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking
off?
18 response(s),
21
votes
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Anal Sex - 3/28/2020
I still have my ass cherry but am considering giving it .
Do you normally cum when being ass fucked without jacking
off?
4 response(s),
1
vote
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Are the women here serious about meeting? Are they single or - 3/27/2020
Are the women here serious about meeting? Are they single
or do men find they are here for other reasons? <br><br>
Are you men finding dates? I mean, real dates ?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Gold or VIP<// - 3/26/2020
What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//
16 response(s),
15
votes
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Gold or VIP<// - 3/26/2020
What is the difference between Gold or VIP<// membership???<//
2 response(s),
0
votes
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How to get a partner here? - 3/26/2020
Hey, How get a partner here?
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18
votes
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Donde estan las chicas que me quieren ver en cam !! - 3/26/2020
Hay damas a las que les interese jugar cam x cam ? Aprovechemos ahora en cuarentena !!!
4 response(s),
8
votes
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labels? - 3/26/2020
When I was 15 [nearly 47 years ago] my best friend and I "experimented"
in boy boy sex. Both of us are now married women and have no desire for man man sex. Are we still labeled as "bi"? Should my profile be listed as bi? Is there a statue of limitation
on this? <br><br>
If a man only wants recieve oral is he bi/gay? We laughed
when we first heard the term ...
17 response(s),
11
votes
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how date you - 3/25/2020
how date you
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4
votes
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Is Find Hookups being realistic in their expectations? Are they being fair in their actions? - 3/25/2020
Ok here is the situation. We received this message for Find Hookups
in our Find Hookups mailbox <br><br>
Dear Silkymadness, <br><br>
Your Icebreaker has been approved and your Gold membership
has been activated. You're all set. <br><br>
Gold membership gets you unlimited access to photos, profiles,
and videos, plus unlimited emails and flirts. ...
30 response(s),
29
votes
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How have you been affected personally by Covid19? - 3/23/2020
I was driving around yesterday after work and everything
felt like a surreal scene from a dystopic science fiction
movie. Restaurants and businesses closed, fewer and fewer
planes overhead, and a sense that the worst has not even
begun. Yes, I am still horny but practicing social distancing.
Still lucky to be employed but sympathetic to those who
are not. Watching unemployment claims jump ...
9 response(s),
15
votes
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Am I just a freak or can I love too? - 3/22/2020
I have met and fell in love with the best woman i have ever
known.. But I can't help but think about
her fucking and sucking another guy while I watch... Can
she love if i want see that?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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COVID19 OR SEX? - 3/22/2020
Wow .. i think people are not serious.This is real. NBC just
announced one of there production personnel just died
from the COVID19. It is sad but amazing how people still
don't get the reality with the death rate in Italy surpassing
china. I like sex so much but with this i would choose life.
Some guys are insanely mad when you tell them you can't
meet .i know the dick will ...
78 response(s),
65
votes
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curious - 3/22/2020
does anybody know what rm means when it is used in front of
a username?
21 response(s),
21
votes
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Is willing to go out bad? - 3/20/2020
I would like to meet someone more than in a chat but with everything
going on... Am I a bad person for wanting more and not waiting?
<br><br>
I am healthy but is breaking the soft lock down rules a bad
thing? <br><br>
The risk does not sound that high but wonder what others
think... love to hear your feedback!
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Have you ever dated someone with a disability? - 3/20/2020
Have you ever dated someone with a disability? I have and
it was not bad in any way. We both had a great time and nothing
bad to say. Somethings change but nothing to mess it up.
How about you?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Does the lock down stop you? - 3/20/2020
How are you doing on the lock down? I have gone out for food
and could go out to play a bit but how about ya'll? Change
anything or is it all the same?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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Is the reason you couldn’t be with someone? - 3/19/2020
Mine is if she doesn’t like oral performed on her, I couldn’t
live without it
11 response(s),
8
votes
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virus - 3/19/2020
Anybody getting paranoid about this virus going around?
Does it change your lifestyle any?
36 response(s),
24
votes
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Dating men w/ ED - 3/18/2020
How many women are willing to date a man with ED? Especially
one who will do most anything to please her?
21 response(s),
16
votes
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Dirty,rotten, cheater or not? - 3/18/2020
I haven't had sex with the wife since 1983. Went to Greece
on a remote Communications site for a year. No women and
the nearest town over 45 minutes away down a winging road
and you don't mess with the women there, you'll
get beat up by the locals. I returned and she accused me of
messing around so no sex upon my return. She refused my advances
for a few years. We have 2 beautiful ...
20 response(s),
4
votes
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connection interupted - 3/14/2020
when trying to use the IM window, after a few seconds, an
alert saying "connection interrupted " pops
up disabling the window. <br><br>
what causes this ?
7 response(s),
16
votes
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virgin boy who is having sex with a hot mature woman after several month as we planned - 3/13/2020
I never had sex or even got my dick sucked and I wish to perform
good and not cum to fast any advice?
23 response(s),
22
votes
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Hover Quick View - 3/13/2020
My hover quick view has stopped working, is this just me?
Is there a known solution?
15 response(s),
8
votes
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Deep throat skill question? Seriously - 3/13/2020
Is this skill easy because one has a wide esophagus? Or does
one train the throat to allow this. My wife has ZERO gag reflex...good
right...but just can't get it to go down. She really
wants to, but can't. I've never had it so u don't
know how to guide her...I'm not going to slam it down..
LOL Any serious help would be greatly appreciated. <br><br>
I
21 response(s),
12
votes
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Hot listing get removed? - 3/13/2020
I no longer see an option to add anyone. My list is still intact
but it does not appear on the thumbnail profile anymore
just flirt and message. Any gold members do you still have
the option?
12 response(s),
10
votes
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After prostrate treatment - 3/11/2020
Guess the question is mostly for the men. But ladies, you
can chip in too. Facing the event of might having prostrate
cancer and needing to have it treated or removed. Would
like to hear from those who had the treatment successfully
and how sex has been afterwards. Would also like to hear
from anyone who has had prostrate removal and how things
have been since. Right now, am doing drugs and ...
21 response(s),
14
votes
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How could we increase participation in the Advice Line - 3/10/2020
The advice line is dying. Is that a harbinger of the future
of this website? If it does go belly up what are the alternatives?
27 response(s),
20
votes
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How to get rid of the recent flirt # - 3/7/2020
43 Flirted with Me 8 <br><br>
How do I get rid of the flirt # on the left side of my profile?
This # used to represent a new flirt, however now it's
cumulative and doesn't disappear after I've
viewed the flirt.
25 response(s),
15
votes
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Ask Me - 3/6/2020
I received a message from a guy today. It said, "Check
out my profile, and if interested, let me know". So,
I open his profile. There is no picture. The "information"
section is filled out, but the "Introduction"
is only one sentence. "Not sure what to say...ask."
<br><br>
I've seen this profile style quite a few times. If one
of these ...
43 response(s),
44
votes
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Does a size making a different? - 3/6/2020
Some girls like a long tool but some like it wide, I'm
always wondering if the penetration that's what matters
or it's actually the fantasy itself?
43 response(s),
23
votes
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Not getting points for activities. - 3/4/2020
Has anyone else had this issue? I uploaded a pic, no points.
I vote on articles, no points. No points for my activities.
I’m not to max on points either. I send a question and the
answer didn’t address my question.
31 response(s),
32
votes
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Have we lost any sense of common courtesy? - 3/3/2020
Can you help me understand why people on Find Hookups cannot provide
the basic courtesy of replying, even to say 'not interested'.
I don't understand why some start a conversation and
then bail out. I'm not talking about someone who is
rude, that doesn't warrant a response, but some conversations
just seem to end abruptly. <br><br>
And if given a 'not interested' ...
49 response(s),
41
votes
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What is your favorite body type? - 3/3/2020
Do you like thin? Thick? Natural? Implants? Who care? <br><br>
I'd like to see, I like change and different things
depending on my mood... How about you?
1 response(s),
0
votes
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What are you looking for on here? - 3/3/2020
Are you here for online chats, meet new friends, meet lovers,
meet booty calls, or to meet the one? Id like to know more
of the culture and the general people on here. I'd like
to meet local friends but ones willing to meet. How about
you? -Jason
2 response(s),
0
votes
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HIV AND STDs ARE REAL - 3/3/2020
I know we all like sex. i lost a friend years ago to HIV and
it was hard to see her suffer. It kills with kindness. She
barely rememberd who gave it to her since she slept around
alot. Many get on here and wana sample each dick or pussy
available. I am considering celibacy since every guy i
meet wana sleep around. Kinda exhausting looking for that
one guy who just wants one trusted sexual ...
20 response(s),
46
votes
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HIV AND STDs ARE REAL - 3/3/2020
I know we all like sex. i lost a friend years ago to HIV and
it was hard to see her suffer. It kills with kindness. She
barely rememberd who gave it to her since she slept around
alot. Many get on here and wana sample each dick or pussy
available. I am considering celibacy since every guy i
meet wana sleep around. Kinda exhausting looking for that
one guy who just wants one trusted sexual ...
1 response(s),
0
votes
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what is up with this site - 3/3/2020
is it weird that no one seems to have posted in the last few
days? <br><br>
anyone else dislike the new flirted format?
30 response(s),
24
votes
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Would Buzzmode be a "turn Off" for my Cam viewers? - 2/29/2020
I was thinking of activating the Buzzmode feature when
get on Cam (getting that pink toy and wearing it). But I was
wondering if that would make me "Less Real"
for my regular viewers (as if I'm not doing it just for
own enjoyment as an exhibitionist anymore). Most people
that watch me enjoy my "real" appeal, as opposed
to the fake bored looking cam girls being very very ...
32 response(s),
33
votes
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Finding a dominant woman to try being a sub for the first time - 2/29/2020
Any tips on where to look for a dominant woman for a first
time submissive experience? I have been with submissive
women but never a dominant one that is willing to tell me
what to do, lead things in the bedroom. Would love to hear
some ideas of ways to find someone like that!
14 response(s),
16
votes
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Finding a dominant woman to try being a sub for the first time - 2/29/2020
Any tips on where to look for a dominant woman for a first
time submissive experience? I have been with submissive
women but never a dominant one that is willing to tell me
what to do, lead things in the bedroom. Would love to hear
some ideas of ways to find someone like that!
2 response(s),
2
votes
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Working IM - 2/29/2020
I just signed up on here. I get IM's sent that when I try
to reply to, they take me to a Credit Card site. I have points so I am confused. Do you have to pay for IM's
also?
32 response(s),
46
votes
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Rhoids - 2/26/2020
Should you avoid or do anal anyway? <br><br>
Gotta get anal
15 response(s),
16
votes
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New member getting no love - 2/26/2020
Wondering what I'm doing wrong here. I understand
that people have their types but its been about a month,
should have had at least one beverage date by now. Any advice
to be part of the fun would be greatly appreciated.
22 response(s),
15
votes
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newbie getting no replies - 2/25/2020
Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages
or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please
criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people
<br><br>
many thanks in advance <br><br>
<br><br>
K
21 response(s),
11
votes
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newbie getting no replies - 2/25/2020
Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages
or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please
criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people
<br><br>
many thanks in advance <br><br>
<br><br>
K
2 response(s),
2
votes
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Site Help - 2/25/2020
New to this and am wondering if there is a way to IM without
paying for a membership?
23 response(s),
23
votes
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Thick, thin, or both? - 2/25/2020
So do you like thin, thick, or both? Personally depends
on who it is but I use to be all over bean poles but fell for
curves because I am a breast man. What do you like?
4 response(s),
0
votes
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Have you ever met at the gym? - 2/25/2020
Id love to meet someone at the gym but there is tons of gears
in motion, distractions like headphones, and I am not sure
on gym culture. Have you ever met someone in the gym? How
do you do it?
5 response(s),
0
votes
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how to make my girl squirt ?? - 2/24/2020
any advice will be great
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31
votes
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how to make my girl squirt ?? - 2/24/2020
any advice will be great
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1
vote
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How is it that ..... - 2/24/2020
I periodically check my profile or make updates and see
that I have had X number of Profile Views and X number of Picture
Views . The question here is ; How is it that pictures can
have more views than profile views ?
26 response(s),
13
votes
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MFM with a BBC - 2/23/2020
My husband has a fantasy of me being with a BBC in a threesome
with him. It's not something I've ever considered or not
considered... I guess it's never crossed my mind.
i know some women really have a fantasy about it. <br><br>
His fantasy is to see it and that the guy has a monster
cock. <br><br>
Question... pro's and cons?
32 response(s),
36
votes
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Anal - 2/23/2020
What's the best way to have anal sex or the best position
to be in when you .first put. The penis in so it doesn't
hurt as bad at first
64 response(s),
54
votes
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What would you do? - 2/22/2020
Was reading that Mikaela Spielberg the adopted
of the famous movie director announced she would be as ex
worker as a form of reclaiming her body and dignity after
childhood episodes of abuse. Her parents are apparently
supporting this career move. Seems a bit crazy and self0destructive to me. Gonna do pole
dancing and whatever else to reclaim her over? Why not used
daddy's millions and go to ...
17 response(s),
19
votes
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What would you do? - 2/22/2020
Was reading that Mikaela Spielberg the adopted
of the famous movie director announced she would be as ex
worker as a form of reclaiming her body and dignity after
childhood episodes of abuse. Her apparent are apparently
supporting this career move. Seems a bit crazy and self0destructive to me. Gonna do pole
dancing and whatever else to reclaim her over? Why not used
daddy's millions and go ...
0 response(s),
0
votes
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paranoia/fear of bi men unfounded? - 2/19/2020
I understand and respect PERSONAL PREFERENCES. This post
is NOT an attack or dismissal of anyone's choices.
What I am asking are the "preferences" due to
paranoid thought process. <br><br>
Example: <br><br>
Single females who say no"bi men". There are
many legit reasons or feelings as to why a F chooses that.
<br><br>
This question ...
43 response(s),
37
votes
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missing posts - 2/19/2020
What is with all the posts being removed. <br><br>
Are we being censored?
17 response(s),
12
votes
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What's your thought on the subject? - 2/18/2020
Would you tell them upfront that you recognized them from
this site? Or Would you not say anything. Using the information
you've learned from studying their profile to your
advantage?
27 response(s),
24
votes
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Sex and Marriage - 2/17/2020
So, I've seen a lot of the guys I went to high school with
get married and have lately. But I'm finding that
they're all pretty much complaining that the sex stops
after marriage or it's just not the same, which got
me thinking... Can a marriage survive if the sex is completely
gone but the relationship is still pretty solid?
22 response(s),
13
votes
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bad in bed - 2/15/2020
i recently met this woman, very , very horny, problem
is she is not very active in bed, she just lays there, she
is up for doing anything and everything but she is just kind
of boring while doing it. how do I proceed with this? she
is very beautiful and likes sex but it sometimes gets boring
because she just lays there, help me please, what can I do.
53 response(s),
29
votes
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Sexless Marriages - 2/14/2020
Sexless Marriages <br><br>
<br><br>
How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating
and going on Find Hookups the solution? When counseling
and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave
your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have.
What is the logical next ...
17 response(s),
14
votes
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Pardon the 2nd question - 2/12/2020
What are appropriate "question" or subjects
here? <br><br>
I see a lot of "what advice are you asking for",
"this belongs in a blog", and other "not
here" comments. <br><br>
Often in the "size" type questions get "check
the archives" [like a hall of mirrors each post "reflects
same thing]. Personal ...
57 response(s),
33
votes
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What's in a name? gender neutral names etc. - 2/12/2020
When we first started using the internet to chat we used
our real names. But because we both have relatively gender
neutral names it caused confusion. <br><br>
[although it was fun fucking with the single men who
thought they were chatting with the female. They'd
want to meet 'alone'. After they got me to agree
I'd tell them I was the male then ask them when ...
13 response(s),
16
votes
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Story Links not working - 2/11/2020
Can anyone tell why the links to a contributors other
stories do not work and or if there is a work around to this
problem. <br><br>
It's really annoying when you come across a great story
and want to read others from the same author only to get sent
to a blank page. <br><br>
Regards, An Avid Reader
12 response(s),
14
votes
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Do you travel far to meet up? - 2/11/2020
Would you travel far to meet up? How far would you go? Im willing
to go within an hour but could be open to more.
6 response(s),
1
vote
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BBC as a qualifier in an ad. - 2/11/2020
What is the fascination with a black cock?
36 response(s),
32
votes
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COUPLES! Were you guys having 3somes and moresomes before you met each other? - 2/11/2020
Maybe one of you were or maybe both of you were. Or maybe this is new for you both! love to know
24 response(s),
23
votes
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Do you meet new people? - 2/11/2020
Do you meet new people? I tend to be more open, lets meet up
for drinks, food, whatever. How about you? Why not enjoy
life and take advantage to free time and freedom?
0 response(s),
0
votes
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SECOND CHANCE !!! - 2/10/2020
I met a guy on the site 2 years ago . We had an instant connection
but i got a job promotion two days after our meeting and my
schedule became hectic before we could pursue anything.
Anyone joins in a management position can relate.We
did communicate but he was so impatient to even wait another
week. I kept communicating but he never responded to my
msgs . Fast forward he contacted me last ...
54 response(s),
37
votes
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ice breaker...... - 2/8/2020
what happened to the ice breaker and thoughts on the changes
to the site
4 response(s),
5
votes
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input on green door swingers sex club las vegas nv ,how is it ? - 2/8/2020
we going thrus feb 27 and seeking info on the club who goes
hows the rooms n play ares ? would you go back ? any and all
info welcome ty . ...
4 response(s),
15
votes
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First time with a couple - 2/8/2020
I have been approached couples, and it's definitely
something I'm interested in. Was wondering if you
have any advice on this topic, or if you have joined a couple,
what was your experience like the first time.
19 response(s),
12
votes
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Guys - 2/7/2020
What’s more important... spending time with your woman
or buying her off with something special?
22 response(s),
29
votes
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Guys - 2/7/2020
What’s more important... spending time with your woman
or buying her off with something special?
0 response(s),
1
vote
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Guys - 2/7/2020
What’s more important... spending time with your woman
or buying her off with something special?
1 response(s),
2
votes
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Guys - 2/7/2020
What’s more important... spending time with your woman
or buying her off with something special?
2 response(s),
0
votes
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Thick, thin, or open? - 2/6/2020
Do you like your partner bigger, smaller, or does not matter?
3 response(s),
0
votes
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Meeting people though Find Hookups - 2/6/2020
Has anyone actually met up with a real person after connecting
on Find Hookups?
51 response(s),
36
votes
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Is it ok to just ignore people? What makes you talk to someone? - 2/6/2020
If you have not talked to someone, dont know anything about
them, and they start a conversation... Is it ok to just ignore
them? <br><br>
Sure you can play the lazy card but I am the type of person
that would respond to anyone who say hi. Why not? That is
what we are on here and after talking a bit, sure stop
any time ya want but lets meet people! Right? <br><br>
The only ...
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Here for long term or booty calls? - 2/6/2020
Are you here long term or just meet ups?
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Do you meet people on here? - 2/6/2020
Do you meet people on here or just chat? I would really like
the meet people but dont want to waste time with people that
are not up front and dont want to meet.
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Hiya everyone - 2/5/2020
sry to do this but need points
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9
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Ex just got divorced - 2/5/2020
So I got engaged to this girl around 9 years ago, and I broke
it off because I was 22, and decided I wasn't ready for
that kind of commitment yet. So she ended up getting married
a few years down the road, but just recently got divorced.
She sent me a friend request on Facebook, and we messaged
for a short time, which is how I found out about her divorce.
So one I dnt know what the friend ...
35 response(s),
22
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Anal over vaginal? - 2/4/2020
Anyone like anal over vaginal???
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16
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Grammar, lack of grammar, and culture - 2/4/2020
I am by far not the best with grammar these days, but other
than this site dropping keywords occasionally, I would
like to think I generally get my point across. We do seem
to have our fair share of grammar critics on this site, but
I suppose if they can't say something negative about
a post they can at least say something negative about the
grammar of a post. I use to be married to a ...
44 response(s),
51
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Married people - 2/4/2020
Is it relevant to you if the person you are having an affair
with is married and cheating ?
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35
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Easier on here or in person? - 2/4/2020
Do you think its easier to carry on a conversation on here
or in person? Its easier for me in person to carry on a conversation,
and to let my personality show. I have a big personality
in person, and like to joke and can make people comfortable
talking with me. On here it's much harder for me to show
that side of myself through typing. Do you have any tips
for me. I definitely over think ...
27 response(s),
22
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First time - 2/3/2020
Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know
them? What did you do?
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58
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First time - 2/3/2020
Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know
them? What did you do?
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6
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First time - 2/3/2020
Who was the first person you cheated with? How did you know
them? What did you do?
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2
votes
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Bi or gay male vs bi/gay female vs transgender. - 2/3/2020
Do you think bi or gay men, bi/gay female or transgender
people, are viewed differently? Is it easier or generally
more accepted to be a bi/gay male, bi/gay female, or transgender,
or is it about equal in your opinion. And if your wondering
I identify as bi curious on here, and wld never feel comfortable
letting that come out to ppl I know.
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22
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Feelings... - 2/3/2020
So, you've been playing with a boyfriend/girlfriend
couple for some time now, not only threesomes but solo as
well. Lately she's been coming over solo more frequently,
always with some excuse why he can't make it this time
(he's been sick, on a business trip, working late,
etc.). Not only that but she's been spending more time
with you afterwards, not the wham bam thank you ...
20 response(s),
21
votes
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No shows! - 2/2/2020
Why agree to meet then not show up? I get we are all on here
for millions of reasons. If you want dirty chat, say so.
If you want NSA/FWB, say so. Its not too hard to communicate,
we are all adults. Does anyone else have this problem?
49 response(s),
39
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Oral sex - 2/2/2020
My FWB and I tried oral sex with her hanging her head over
side of bed , she said it was so much better than the usual
way . She got really excited by it . Any theories as why
?? I'll have admit I really enjoyed it too.
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29
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Oral sex - 2/2/2020
My FWB and I tried oral sex with her hanging her head over
side of bed , she said it was so much better than the usual
way . She got really excited by it . Any theories as why
?? I'll have admit I really enjoyed it too.
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1
vote
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Caught Feelings - 2/1/2020
I met someone from this site and have been seeing him for
the past few months. We usually meet once a month to do the
deed but we also go to dinner in between our sessions too.
My feelings are pretty preliminary, initial crush developing
but I don't know what to do or if/how I should tell them.
I get pretty mixed feelings from my partner so I'm not
entirely sure how he feels. ...
32 response(s),
36
votes
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Safety - 2/1/2020
Do you feel generally safe meeting strangers on here. Do
you meet first or take precautions. Being a its something
iv never even gave a thought to. I'd hate to think I'm
heading over to meet someone, and they just go along with
it, but in the back of there mind, they're wondering
if I'm a predator. What do you generally do, when meeting
someone on this sight.
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17
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Smelly - 2/1/2020
What's the right thing to do if coming accross a amelly
puasy? Say you are undreasing her and at panties removal
the smell hits your nose like a piercing burning rotting
fish kind of smell?
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18
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Smelly - 2/1/2020
What's the right thing to do if coming accross a amelly
puasy? Say you are undreasing her and at panties removal
the smell hits your nose like a piercing burning rotting
fish kind of smell?
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3
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Our survey says................... - 2/1/2020
Now were in 2020 I was wondering looking back past 20-
years and how tech has evolved from phones to computers,
cars, and planes, etc. Is there anything you would like
to see improved or maybe something else yet to be made which
you think would benefit people in the next 20- years.
Just shits and giggles, this is people
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9
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Would you read a Sex Party Blog Post? - 2/1/2020
We're considering writing a blog about a sex party
where Sexei had 5 guys and 7 women (not all at once but through
the course of the night). Would you read it?
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29
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For women - 1/31/2020
It seems like all men are pretty much game for meaningless
sex with most any woman will have them if there is a physical
attraction. Women can mssg a guy wana come over and fuck, and the awnser is more times
then not going to be yes. So why are most women(not all) the
complete opposite. Most women wldnt even respond to a mssg
like that. Why is this? Why are we so different when it comes
to ...
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16
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Real or Ghost Partner? - 1/31/2020
Have seen several profiles. Where you see a single picture
of person. But they say their partner want have
with others. But there is no picture of so said partner or
description of them. All which makes ask are THEY REAL??
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9
votes
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What happened to the IM Incoming/Busy icon????? - 1/31/2020
Just noticed that the IM Incoming/Busy icon is missing.
Now there is no way to tell when someone wants to chat.
25 response(s),
18
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Question - 1/31/2020
After being on this site men outnumbered the women significantly.
Begs to question if women have the same urges as men or if
they have better control over their urges.
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Isn't what you have to go through.. - 1/31/2020
..just a bit ridiculous to get some bloody ! I think
I'll probably give up on this site soon tbh, which is
a shame
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11
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Being a Sub - 1/30/2020
Is it a requirement that a sub must agree submit any
and all those want her. Is there any reason she can't
choose whom submit without "losing" her
sub status? Or does the very choice of picking her disqualify
her from being a sub?
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13
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Has anyone ever used a Money order to purchase a membership - 1/30/2020
Hello Find Hookups members! I used to be a gold member & had a blast
doing so. When the economy took a nose dive I had to cut some
expenses & switch to a standard membership. Now things
are starting to look better now I want to go back to GOLD. I do not want to
use a credit card & they have a money order alternative that i would like to try. Have
any of you used this method of payment ? were ...
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A poor business venture - 1/30/2020
Every site has good and bad . What my discussion
is, do sites like this really want you to succeed? <br><br>
If you meet someone from here, they stand to lose two active
members. Most likely two paying members. <br><br>
So what do you think? Are "dating" sites really
set up for ease of meeting?
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25
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threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020
is it a better experience for the man if the two women are
solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly?
In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being
the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with
each other
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13
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threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020
is it a better experience for the man if the two women are
solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly?
In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being
the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with
each other
6 response(s),
5
votes
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threesome of one man with two women - 1/29/2020
is it a better experience for the man if the two women are
solely heterosexual or if the two women are girl friendly?
In short, does it matter or does the guy benefit from being
the sole focus of attention of the two women have no sex with
each other
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1
vote
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To stay or go? - 1/29/2020
Would you stay with someone because of the sex? If you have,
how did it end?
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17
votes
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Getting It Straight - 1/29/2020
Is it okay for women to have a preference for men who exclusively
have sex with women, or should she have to HAVE sex with men
also engage in sex acts with other men? Is it okay for a man to portray himself as exclusively interested in women, when he, in fact, engages in sex with
men? If a man portrays himself as having sex with women, but in fact engages in sex acts with other men, is he as ...
34 response(s),
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85,000 points - 1/29/2020
I'm like 100 points away from 85k in points what would
you spend them on. my husband thinks i should try most
expensive toy. i could also buy 2 years of free member ship
or months and months of private , not that i enjoy chatting
with many people. <br><br>
<br><br>
well thanks and i forward hear from you. <br><br>
<br><br> ...
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35
votes
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How many guys out there have had a threesome - 1/29/2020
Two guys one girl wierd?
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23
votes
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Do you think a man who likes anal is gay? - 1/29/2020
I am a Bi sexual man, I tend to lean gay, men are just more willing
to treat sex as sex, just an act performed for the outcome,
not solely attached to LOVE. As for anal play I first experienced it when I found my mothers
battery operated rocket. I knew sex was about a man's
penis penetrating a woman's vagina. Butt I had only
one hole down there, I was hooked instantly. I wore down
those ...
22 response(s),
17
votes
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Why are women strange in chat? - 1/29/2020
I see women acting strange in chat... whats up with that.
I have pics and info I am willing to share but some wont even
take a chance and respond. I dont want to waste a good day
playing games. Lets go out grab drinks and have fun!
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What sites do you like that are like this? - 1/29/2020
I have not tried app and was not happy with dating sites being
many games... so what sites like this do you like?
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For All Those Fitness Buffs - 1/29/2020
What's are your favourite things put in your power
smoothie after a workout? Looking switch mine up a bit.
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9
votes
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Has anyone on here had something long term - 1/28/2020
Have you had long term on here or more play dates?
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votes
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how is a magazine differnt than blog? - 1/28/2020
I see they have groups, magazines and blogs but it all seems
to be the same thing.
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32
votes
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Is he Straight or Gay? - 1/27/2020
I am a gay and a couple of times have watched straight porn with my straight friend. The 1st time we were drunk
and I gave him head while he watched straight porn. He didn't
get hard all the way and we blamed it on whiskey dick. He did
leak his precum all over my face and shirt though. The 2nd
time we weren't as drunk and I didn't touch him
but he didn't seem to get hard and we ...
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33
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For the straight men. - 1/27/2020
question is do men enjoy watching a woman give head? I
am straight and not bi but I enjoy watching it in porn and
in person. Lets hear your opinions.
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if u suck dick, how far can u go? - 1/27/2020
I had someone get it all once.. but it seriously ended up
in their stomach and it didn't feel quite right. How
far can you suck a big dick?
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29
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For female subs - 1/27/2020
What are your expectations re financial arrangements
if you live with a Dom / Master? Is it usual for a sub to work
for employment? <br><br>
Thanks
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15
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Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020
What are the usual financial arrangements for a live in
salve / domestic servant? <br><br>
Thanks
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18
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Question for experienced male doms - 1/27/2020
Has anyone ever brought a female from another country,
and if so what were the financial arrangements? <br><br>
Thanks
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2
votes
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Anyone have any luck hooking up here? - 1/26/2020
Would love to hear stories and examples from people hooking
up from here.
40 response(s),
21
votes
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Anyone have any luck hooking up here? - 1/26/2020
Would love to hear stories and examples from people hooking
up from here.
4 response(s),
1
vote
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Post Affair - 1/26/2020
Serious question time. Has anyone's relationship ever recovered after an
affair?
32 response(s),
24
votes
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how can i get more pussy - 1/25/2020
how can i increase the number of times i get laid
31 response(s),
27
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